When you say the "new affinity"  do you mean affinity.studio by Canva?  If so that has a separate section in the forum. 
https://punster.me/serif/viewforum.php?id=22

This section is for Affinity V1 and V2  as Serif said in their last email to me. "This isn’t a version three. It’s something else entirely. An all-in-one, customizable app, combining photo editing, vector design, and page layout in one smooth, powerful space. "

On re-reading I may have worded my question badly.

I was hoping that somebody like me who uses Publisher might of taken the time to be helpful and pointed me in the right direction of where the setting was to be found in Publisher. 

After posting and then searching around in my publisher I found where it was in the menu it was ticked.  So I looked for the same setting in Affinity Studio (which I and my friend still refer to as version 3) As do many online people in other social media sites

I am sorry if I caused this spat, it is the first time in many years that I have posted something in a Forum topic where it has caused a problem I have always strived to be polite and respectful of other members.

Cheers Vicki (and John)

It's not your fault.

Thank you for cleaning up this thread.